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NEIL PAREKH'S
LENS ON LIFE BLOG
Thoughts and observations on mental health, technology, social media, photography and more.


My Parents Got Married 54 Years Ago
I've been talking to my Mom lately about the early years including their time in India together and what their experiences were like when they came to the U.S.Â
Neil Parekh
Nov 26


Ep. 39 Shining Light on Shadows: Perimenopause and Mental Health
For our discussion on Perimenopause, we will be joined by Dr. Ellen Albertson, who serves on the Medical Advisory Committee for the National Menopause Foundation; Lisa Falcone, CRNP, who is currently in Perimenopause and works as a nurse practitioner at the Lifecycleâ„¢ Wellness and Birth Center; and Aisha Sultan, a columnist for the St. Louis Post-Dispatch who has written about her own experience with Perimenopause.
Neil Parekh
Nov 10


My 14 United Way Years: Reflections and Connections
This is a personal look back at the people, projects, and moments that shaped my professional journey — and the lifelong connections that continue to inspire me. It’s my way of celebrating United Way NEXT’s 35th anniversary.
Neil Parekh
Oct 31


When the Ground Shifts Beneath You (ADHD, PTSD, Bipolar Disorder and Anxiety)
When the doctor mentioned the words bipolar 2 disorder, ADHD, anxiety, and PTSD, all at once the floor crumbled underneath me.
Kate Easton
Oct 23


Ep. 38 Kate Easton | Shining Light on Shadows: When a Mental Health Diagnosis Changes Long-Held Beliefs
Getting a Mental Health Diagnosis can often bring clarity. What happens when it forces you to reframe long-held beliefs, or contradicts an earlier diagnosis?
Neil Parekh
Oct 22


Typos, Hallucinations and More: Does AI Save Time When Extracting Text? (Google Gemini vs. ChatGPT vs. Perplexity)
Google Gemini made the fewest errors. Most of them were typos, as opposed to hallucinations. ChatGPT made the most errors, with a combination of typos and hallucinations. Most of Perplexity’s errors were egregious hallucinations.
Neil Parekh
Oct 1


Honoring My Dad's Passing by Thanking Paris Thomas
My dad passed away 16 years ago on October 1, 2009 six months after a heart transplant. His last stay in the hospital lasted two and a half weeks. One of the ways I honored his memory was by remembering Paris Thomas, a security guard at New York-Presbyterian Hospital.
Neil Parekh
Sep 30


Ep. 37 Talal Hattar | Shining Light on Shadows: Grief and Mourning Take Many Forms
Grief can take many forms. The most familiar is when we are faced with the loss of a loved one. There are rituals of mourning, familiar ways of providing comfort and an accepted and understood common language that we use to show our support. What about when we grieve the loss of an Identity? Or the loss of a Relationship? A Job? A Dream? Although the emotions might be similar, there are often no rituals, no common language.
Neil Parekh
Sep 30


The First Step is Forgiveness—A post-9/11 Hate Crime and One Man's Unexpected Response
A man tried to burn down his mosque in one of many post-9/11 hate crimes. Issa Qandeel confronted him, was shot at and chased him. The FBI wanted to make an example out of him, but Issa argued for a lesser sentence, citing the importance of forgiveness in Islam. I had the honor of interviewing him and telling his story in Colors NW Magazine on the one-year anniversary of the attacks of September 11.
Neil Parekh
Sep 14
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