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NEIL PAREKH'S
LENS ON LIFE BLOG
Thoughts and observations on mental health, technology, social media, photography and more.


The Weight I Carried; A Life of Invisible Pressure aka Body Dysmorphia
Body dysmorphia isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just this persistent hum in the background—a cycle of self-criticism, shame, and comparison. A sick feeling when you look at yourself. A need to hide. A voice that takes every reflection and turns it into something cruel.

Tori Frafjord
Jul 31, 2025


Ep. 33 Tori Frafjord | Shining Light on Shadows: Trauma's Impact on Self-Image; Body Dysmorphia is Real
Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental health condition characterized by an excessive and distressing preoccupation with perceived flaws in one's physical appearance.

Neil Parekh
Jul 31, 2025


Setting and Respecting Boundaries Can Be A Game Changer
Even when you have put in the work, even when you have learned the tools or the art of setting boundaries, there may still be circumstances and people that you struggle to create or establish healthy boundaries with. Keep putting in the work. Your mental health will thank you. You owe it to yourself to set healthy boundaries and protect your peace.

Patricia Croom
Jun 26, 2025


Strong Boundaries Give Me the Sense of Being in Control
Boundaries are very good to have, but when it comes to people who have experienced trauma, that can be a challenge. I think it is important to reflect on where you are in your life no matter what age you are, and understand that things can always be better if you focus on what can make a difference for you.

Dawn Helmrich
Jun 26, 2025


Ep. 32 Patricia Croom | Shining Light on Shadows: Strong Boundaries to Protect Yourself or Weak Boundaries?
There are so many different ways to approach this issue. Boundaries at home, at work, with friends, with strangers.

Neil Parekh
Jun 25, 2025


Watching My Dad Get Older Gives Me a New Perspective on Aging
Mental health gets more difficult the older we get. Things change rapidly and sometimes the elderly get left behind. I think we need to think about those around us that are getting older and what their needs might be.

Dawn Helmrich
Jun 11, 2025


When You Are Older, Your Mental Health is Not a Priority
Ageism is referred to as the last socially-acceptable prejudice by some experts. It’s bad enough in its day-to-day manifestations. It’s worse when it’s practiced by mental health professionals.

Jonathan Boorstein
Jun 11, 2025


Ep. 31 Jonathan Boorstein | Shining Light on Shadows: Ageism in Mental Health Services for Seniors
We will focus on ageism in the delivery of mental health services and the importance of keeping a closer eye on our older friends and loved ones.

Neil Parekh
Jun 11, 2025


Ep. 30 Aisha Sultan | Shining Light on Shadows: "Things We Don't Talk About," A PBS Series on Mental Health
Aisha Sultan just launched a series on Mental Health airing on Nine PBS in St. Louis. She will also talk about her own mental health journey.

Neil Parekh
May 20, 2025


Redefining Motherhood as Your Kids Become More Independent
People don’t talk much about the sense of loss you feel when you are no longer your child's primary caregiver. Discovering a sense of self after so many years of focusing on someone else is not easy.

Dawn Helmrich
May 6, 2025


A Mother's Heartache, A Mother's Resilience
Pictures, videos, memory boxes—these are all that remain of my daughter Adaya, and sometimes, they hold her echo so vividly that they break me all over again.

Amanda Kranz
May 6, 2025


Ep. 29 Amanda Kranz | Shining Light on Shadows: A Mother's Love—An Unbreakable Bond Through Life or Death
Amanda Kranz will share how she has coped with the loss of her daughter, just three months after being born.

Neil Parekh
May 6, 2025


Neil Parekh's Evolution as a Mental Health Advocate
I've had a front row seat for Neil's evolution as a mental health advocate, watching him share more of himself with every episode. Now, he's talking about his recent diagnosis of Adult ADHD.

Dawn Helmrich
Apr 21, 2025


Updating My Diagnosis at 51—It’s Adult ADHD and RSD, Not Anxiety and Depression
I was diagnosed with Adult ADHD last Fall at the age of 51. Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is a big way in which it manifests itself in me.

Neil Parekh
Apr 21, 2025


Ep. 28 Neil Parekh | Shining Light on Shadows: Mental Health Advocacy and a New Diagnosis at 51—Adult ADHD
This episode focuses on Neil's mental health journey, evolution as an advocate and recent Adult ADHD diagnosis.

Neil Parekh
Apr 21, 2025


The Inside Story of Writing “The Blue Flower Curtain”
The book is about resilience, perseverance, mental health struggles, addiction—the roller coaster of life packed with a punch of trauma.

Dawn Helmrich
Apr 9, 2025


Ep. 27 Sexual Assault Awareness Month | Shining Light on Shadows: "The Blue Flower Curtain" by Dawn Helmrich
This episode focuses on Dawn's story of being violently raped at gunpoint 31 years ago. More than anything, it is a story of resilience.

Neil Parekh
Apr 8, 2025


After Our Daughter’s Second Suicide Attempt, We Felt Lost and Alone
Family members are a hidden segment that do not receive a lot of attention or support, and they are in pain and suffering, too.

Jim Yu
Mar 25, 2025


Parenting a Child with Social Anxiety Disorder
The truth is you have to allow people with mental health issues, all people, to decide what is best for them.

Dawn Helmrich
Mar 25, 2025


Ep. 26 Jim Yu | Shining Light on Shadows: Borderline Personality Disorder Support for Families
We want the best for our children, but what happens when your child has Borderline Personality Disorder or Social Anxiety Disorder?

Neil Parekh
Mar 24, 2025
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